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10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date

In Dating, For the Guys, Podcast by Debra FiletaAugust 11, 2023

Heart break doesn’t have to be the norm…if you know what to avoid, that is. In this episode of the LOVE …

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A Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 25, 2023

It’s easy to feel that men and women speak different languages.  Books titles like Men are from Mars, Women are …

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Unmarried? What to do With Sexual Desires

In Advice and Encouragement, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaOctober 5, 2022

Q: Can you tell me how to control sexual desires when single? My hormones seem like they’re raging, and I’m …

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What Makes a Man Marriage Material

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage by Debra FiletaSeptember 14, 2022

A few days ago, my husband wrote a post about the qualities that make a woman marriage material, and I …

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What Makes a Woman Marriage Material

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaSeptember 7, 2022

Have you ever wondered what guys are looking for in a wife? Or maybe you’re a man, and you’ve dated …

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Why “Friends with Benefits” Has ZERO Benefits

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaAugust 24, 2022

We live in a culture with a high tolerance for unknowns.  From our fear of calling things right and wrong, …

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Why Chivalry (As We Know It) Should Be Dead!

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 15, 2022

I was first introduced to the art of chivalry during my freshman year of college.  As a northern girl (a …

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7 Things Men Need to Know About Women

In Advice and Encouragement, Engagement, For the Guys, Marriage by Debra FiletaMay 11, 2022

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. We’ve heard that kind of language for ages. From childhood rhymes, to …

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What Women Really Want in a Man

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 4, 2022

What women want in a man is probably not what most men expect. In fact, I saw an ad recently …

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10 Girls You Should NEVER Date

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys by Debra FiletaMarch 9, 2022

My last article 10 Guys You Should Never Date, blew up my website.  And while it resonated with most people, …

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How to STOP Leading People On

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaFebruary 9, 2022

I was prepared for a specific response from readers when I posted an article called “How to NEVER Get Led-On …

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The Best of 2021: Podcast Episodes

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage, Mental and Emotional Health, Podcast, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 29, 2021

CELEBRATING 1 MILLION DOWNLOADS The Love and Relationships Podcast has surpassed 1,000,000 unique downloads! Thank you to each and every …

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Last Minute Christmas Gifts for Every Relationship Status

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Guest Post, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Courtney KatoDecember 18, 2021

Christmas Gift Ideas For Your Significant Other You can be specific and intentional in getting a gift for that special …

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To All the Adams Out There

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 13, 2021

I met a young man named Adam who was carrying a large wooden cross.  Let me back up.  My family …

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“Godly Single Man” Giveaway – We Want to Encourage the Single Guys!!

In For the Guys by Debra FiletaNovember 5, 2020

Don’t get too excited, ladies. We’re not giving away a single godly man…(some of you would stand in all kinds …