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The Christmas Gift Guide For Every Relationship Status

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage by Debra FiletaDecember 19, 2019

Christmas Gift Ideas For Your Significant Other Wondering what to get that special someone this Christmas? Check out this Christmas …

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5 Guaranteed Ways to Attract a TOTAL Jerk

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaSeptember 23, 2019

“I’m out to attract a jerk”….said no one ever. In fact, that’s pretty much the LAST thing anyone would ever …

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What to do When He/or She Isn’t a Virgin

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 25, 2019

I got an email from a concerned virgin: a young man troubled by the sexual sins of his partner’s past.  …

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How Your Fantasies Can Ruin Your Real Life Relationships

In For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaMarch 14, 2018

Reality vs Fantasy: Which one appeals to you? I recently overheard two women discussing their fantasy boyfriends over coffee. They were …

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The Top 8 Turn Offs For Women

In For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaFebruary 28, 2018

What are the biggest turn offs for women (aka the ladies, girls, and gals out there)? A few days ago, …

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Does She Like Me? 7 Clues She’s Interested

In For the Guys by Debra FiletaJanuary 31, 2018

Does she like me? Are men really sitting around wondering, does she like me? Believe it or not, that’s a …

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Women Submitting To Their Husbands: What Christians Get WRONG

In Advice and Encouragement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage by Debra FiletaJanuary 15, 2018

You know it’s going to be an interesting day when you get a phone call from a TV reality show …

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Stop Being Okay With Crappy Relationships

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 26, 2017

Do you find yourself wondering if you’re in a toxic relationship?  Maybe you’ve been there. Or maybe you know someone …

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3 Ways To Show Her You’re Interested

In Advice and Encouragement, For the Guys by Debra FiletaOctober 5, 2017

Q: How do I convey that I’m interested in a woman? What are signs or signals that would help to …

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How To Approach A Girl and Not Be Creepy

In For the Guys by Debra FiletaSeptember 29, 2017

Q: Hey Debra. As a guy, what are some tips on how I can approach women in a Godly, but …

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“Boys Will Be Boys” Until We Expect Them To Become Men

In Advice and Encouragement, For the Guys by Debra FiletaJune 27, 2017

A few days ago, a post about bikini’s blew up my website as well as my Facebook Page with readers, …

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Top 5 Dating Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaApril 18, 2017

What do you think were the top relationship mistakes my readers reported making? Think about that question for a moment. Maybe …

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3 Ways Men Need To Step Up Their Dating Game

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys by Debra FiletaMarch 1, 2017

Q: Why do men say they want to go out on a second date, but never follow through? A: Boy meets …

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How to Meet a Guy/Girl In 4 Easy Steps

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaFebruary 23, 2017

Q: Hey Debra. As a guy, what are some tips on I can approach women in a Godly, but not …

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10 Things Single Girls Want Single Guys to Know

In Dating, For the Guys, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 24, 2017

Earlier this week on Facebook, I asked Single Guys and Single Girls to tell me what they wanted the opposite …