Before anything else in her life, Debra Fileta is a woman in love with Jesus. That love has been the driving motivator propelling her forward in her pursuits as a wife, a mother, a licensed professional counselor, a speaker, and an author.

She is married to the love of her life, who pushes her to pursue her dreams and is her number one fan! She and John are parents to four beautiful children- Ella, Elijah, Ezra, and Ethan. They live in Lancaster, PA.

Debra is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in dating, marriage, and relationship issues, along with a spectrum of mental health disorders and issues. She’s also the author of True Love Dates, Choosing Marriage, Love in Every Season, Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions.

Her popular relationship advice blog reaches millions of people each year with the message of healthy relationships!

Debra is a regular contributor at Relevant Magazine and, with over 200 articles around the web about love, marriage, dating, sex, and relationships. Her articles have been featured in magazines, websites, and publications such as Today’s Christian Woman, Verily Magazine,, Proverbs 31,,, The Christian Post, Charisma Magazine, Converge Magazine, Christianity Today, Her.meneutics, and many others. The majority of her work is featured on her blog,

Debra loves to travel the country speaking about love, sex, marriage, and relationships and has been privileged to partner with organizations and churches such as Saddleback Church, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, The Boundless Show,, as well as radio programs throughout the country, colleges, and universities. If you are interested in having Debra speak or write for your ministry or event, please fill out her booking page to be in touch!