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10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?

In Dating, For the Ladies, Podcast by Debra FiletaAugust 8, 2023

Q: Hey Debra! I have a pattern of dating the bad boys. How do I recognize the type of guy …

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A Woman’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaFebruary 1, 2023

After a “Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines” hit the blog last week, I got a lot of great response from …

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Unmarried? What to do With Sexual Desires

In Advice and Encouragement, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaOctober 5, 2022

Q: Can you tell me how to control sexual desires when single? My hormones seem like they’re raging, and I’m …

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What Makes a Man Marriage Material

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage by Debra FiletaSeptember 14, 2022

A few days ago, my husband wrote a post about the qualities that make a woman marriage material, and I …

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What Makes a Woman Marriage Material

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaSeptember 7, 2022

Have you ever wondered what guys are looking for in a wife? Or maybe you’re a man, and you’ve dated …

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Why “Friends with Benefits” Has ZERO Benefits

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaAugust 24, 2022

We live in a culture with a high tolerance for unknowns.  From our fear of calling things right and wrong, …

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What Men Really Want in a Woman

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 22, 2022

All kinds of women out there are wondering what men really want in a woman… Ever since my last article …

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Why Chivalry (As We Know It) Should Be Dead!

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 15, 2022

I was first introduced to the art of chivalry during my freshman year of college.  As a northern girl (a …

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Why You Always Date Jerks

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 25, 2022

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the sweetest people are drawn to the “bad guys”? I’ll never forget meeting Kelly*, …

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7 Things Women Need to Know About Men

In For the Ladies, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 19, 2022

It was fun getting all the feedback from the last post called, “What Men Need to Know About Women”. The …

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13 Signs That He’s Just Not That Into You

In Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 20, 2022

Are there any signs he’s just not that into you? As a relationship expert, I can guarantee you that there are. …

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How to STOP Leading People On

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaFebruary 9, 2022

I was prepared for a specific response from readers when I posted an article called “How to NEVER Get Led-On …

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The Selfie-Epidemic: And Why it Matters

In Advice and Encouragement, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 19, 2022

Scrolling through my instagram and facebook newsfeeds recently, I was struck by the overwhelming realization that we are a generation …

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The Best of 2021: Podcast Episodes

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage, Mental and Emotional Health, Podcast, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 29, 2021

CELEBRATING 1 MILLION DOWNLOADS The Love and Relationships Podcast has surpassed 1,000,000 unique downloads! Thank you to each and every …

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Last Minute Christmas Gifts for Every Relationship Status

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Guest Post, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 18, 2021

Christmas Gift Ideas For Your Significant Other You can be specific and intentional in getting a gift for that special …