Does God want me to be single forever? Here's some encouragement when you're struggling with singleness.

Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns

In Podcast by Debra Fileta

Does God want me to be single forever? How do I know whether or not I have the “gift” of singleness? How do I hold on to hope when the future seems so unknown and so unclear?

So many people are struggling with these questions as they look ahead at an unknown future and wonder whether or not God has marriage in their horizon.

Am I Going To Be Single Forever?

There are so many things in life where we just don’t know what God has planned. But there are some truths and promises that can keep you grounded and hopeful while you wait.

This final episode of Season 1 of the Love + Relationships Podcast is an important one, and one that is really close to my heart with all the waiting I have done in my life – and the waiting I continue to do in so many other ares of my life. I hope and pray that this episode will leave you encouraged as we collectively learn to trust God with the unknowns in life.

We’re going to be back with the Love + Relationships Podcast, with brand new guests, topics, and episodes starting January 1st! I look forward to reconnecting with you again in the new year….but in the meantime, catch up on all the episodes, and send in all your relationship questions as we’re gearing up to record Season 2!

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Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes:

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Or check out this mini episode and find out what I think about the concept of “Finding The One“.


Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog,, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter