Love + Relationships Podcast with Debra Fileta
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Episode 270: Tips For The First Years of Marriage: Porn, Honesty, and Forgiveness
Episode 269: Happy Wife = Happy Life (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 268: Married Couples Need A Weekly Date Night Out (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 267: Marriage Should Make You Happy (and other bad relationship advice) with Gary Thomas
Episode 266: Time = Love: A Conversation with My Husband (Part 3)
Episode 265: Boundaries With The Opposite Sex: A Conversation with My Husband (Part 2)
Episode 264: Emotional Connection in Marriage: A Conversation With My Husband (Part 1)
Episode 263: ASK A COUNSELOR - Perspective and Mindset
Episode 262: ASK A COUNSELOR - Identity
Episode 261: ASK A COUNSELOR - Conflict in Marriage
Episode 260: ASK A COUNSELOR - Boundaries
Episode 259: ASK A COUNSELOR - The Myth of The One
Episode 258: ASK A COUNSELOR - Clutter and Hoarding
Episode 257: ASK A COUNSELOR - The Imposter Syndrome
Episode 256: ASK A COUNSELOR - Understanding Attachment Styles
Episode 255: ASK A COUNSELOR - Friendships As An Adult
Episode 254: ASK A COUNSELOR - Dysfunctional Family: Is There Hope for Me to Have a Future Healthy Family?
Episode 253: Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
Episode 252: 8 Ways To Pray For Love (Even Before You Have A Relationship)
Episode 251: How To Guard Your Heart Without Being Too Guarded
Episode 250: Faith & Romance: Attracted to a Non-Christian
Episode 249: Biblical Dating: Camels, Arranged Marriage, and Starbucks.
Episode 248: Single in my 30s- How To Hold On To Hope
Episode 247: 10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date
Episode 246: 10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date
Episode 245: Am I Going To Be Single Forever?
Episode 244: Struggling With Singleness: A Conversation with Mandisa
Episode 243: Should A Woman Initiate?
Episode 242: You Don’t Have To Like Being Single
Episode 241: Walking Away From Toxic Relationships (with Gary Thomas)
Episode 240: The Reality Check of Marriage (with Addie and Jeremy Camp)
Episode 239: When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Grief, Loss & Remarriage (with Daniel & Brittany Price Brooker)
Episode 238: Birth Order & Your Love Life: How Birth Order Impacts Your Relationships
Episode 237: Communication In Marriage: How To Stop The Drift (with Dr. Kim Kimberling)
Episode 236: RESET from Worst Case Scenario Thinking (an on-air session with Roosevelt)
Episode 235: RESET from a Hopeless Marriage (with Out of the Dust Music)
Episode 234: RESET from Trauma (with Toni Collier)
Episode 233: RESET from Insecurity (an on-air session with Nanette)
Episode 232: RESET from Negative Thinking (with Christine Caine)
Episode 231: RESET from Grief (an on-air session with Sabrina)
Episode 230: RESET from Bad Marriage Advice (with the Lusko’s)
Episode 229: RESET from Negative Thinking (an on-air session with Josh)
Episode 228: RESET From Porn (a conversation with Matt and Sathiya)
Episode 227: RESET from Toxic Optimism
Episode 226: RESET from Addiction (with Irene Rollins)
Episode 225: RESET My Relationship with Food (on-air session with Erin)
Episode 224: RESET Your View of God (with Alex Seely)
Episode 223: RESET!! Exclusive BOOK LAUNCH Bonus Episode with Debra
Episode 222: RESET from Unhealthy Relationships (on-air Session with Felix)
Episode 221: It’s Time for RESET! (Audiobook Sneak Peek!)
Episode 220: Don’t Take It Out On Me. Couples Therapy with Abigail and Daniel.
Episode 219: Childhood Wounds. Couples Therapy with Nikki and Russel. Part 2
Episode 218: The Disconnected Marriage. Couples Therapy with Nikki and Russel. Part 1
Episode 217: My Needs, Your Needs. Couples Therapy with Ben and Mary
Episode 216: Physical Health: Eat, Sleep, Move – Repeat
Episode 215: Mental Health: It’s Not a Character Issue, It’s a Chemistry Issue
Episode 214: Spiritual Health: Taking Our Hurts Out on God
Episode 214: Spiritual Health: Taking Our Hurts Out on God
Episode 213: Emotional Health: Don’t Assume You Have It
Episode 212: You’re Not As Healthy As You Think You Are
Episode 211: The One-Sided Relationship
Episode 210: Top 10 Relationship Killers: Small Things That Cause Big Damage
Episode 209: Junk Food Relationships: Convenient but not Healthy
Episode 208: Questions You’ve Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Sex [Singles Panel Part 3]
Episode 207: Where are the Singles? Places To Meet Christian Singles. [Singles Panel Part 2]
Episode 206: What’s Your Dating Mentality? What You Think Effects How You Date [Singles Panel Part 1]
Episode 205: Ask a Counselor Q&A Breaking Free From Porn w/ Tony Hasaballa, M.A. NCC, CSAT Candidate
Episode 204: Ask a Counselor Q&A Signs You Need to Deal With Your Trauma w/ Sandy K. Wilda, M.A., LPC
Episode 203: Ask a Counselor Q&A Biggest Mistakes Couples Make In Conflict w/ Brad Aldrich, LMFT
Episode 202: Ask a Counselor Q&A How Do I Let Go of “What Ifs” From Past Relationships? w/ Anna Pavlov, LMFT
Episode 201: Ask a Counselor Q&A Relationship Blind Spots: How To See What You’re Not Seeing with Dr. Christina Salama PSY.D, LMFT 
Episode 200: Ask a Counselor Q&A Couple in Crisis with Larinda Horton M.A., LPC
Episode 199: Ask a Counselor Q&A How Do I Get Over Rejection? with Bri Franklin, M.A. , LMHC
Episode 198: #1 Most Downloaded: #1 Most Downloaded: Don’t Always Believe Your Feelings- Emotional Health
Episode 197: #2 Most Downloaded: Couples Therapy with Justin and Tracy
Episode 196: #3 Most Downloaded: Sex Tips and Tricks for Newlyweds (or Not-So-Newlyweds)
Episode 195: #4 Most Downloaded: Just Not That Into You – 10 Signs
Episode 194: #5 Most Downloaded: Compatibility – How To Know If You’re A Good Match
Episode 193: Body Image: Learning to Love It
Episode 192: Physical Health: How to Keep Your Body Strong!
Episode 191: Enneagram and Relationships
Episode 190: Christians, Anxiety, and OCD Behaviors
Episode 189: Dealing with Your Past
Episode 188: Avoiding Burnout (w/co-host Christy Wright)
Episode 187: Attachment Styles: With Krispin Mayfield
Episode 186: Codependent Relationships: On-Air Counseling with Toni Collier
Episode 185: Overcoming Childhood Trauma: On-Air Counseling with Lisa Bevere
Episode 184: The Hole of Depression: On-Air Counseling with Louie Giglio
Episode 183: Claustrophobia: On-Air Counseling with Rebekah Lyons
Episode 182: From National TV To a Psychiatric Hospital: On-Air Counseling with Sheila Walsh
Episode 181: Emotional Sprains: Letting Myself Feel The Pain: On-Air Counseling Session with Bianca Olthoff
Episode 180: Emotional Sprains: On-Air Counseling with Anthony Evans
Episode 179:Rebuilding After Trauma: On-Air Counseling with Jonathan Pitts
Episode 178: Debilitating Panic Attacks: On-Air Counseling Session with Jeremy Camp
Episode 178: Debilitating Panic Attacks: On-Air Counseling Session with Jeremy Camp
Episode 177: Trapped In Grief: On-Air Counseling with Levi Lusko
Episode 176: Rejection, Loss, and Abandonment: On-Air Counseling Session with Christine Caine
Episode 175: Childhood Wounds: On-Air Counseling Session with Matt Chandler
Episode 174: Suicide in the Church: On-Air Counseling Session with Kayla Stoecklein
Episode 173: Anti-Depressants and Prayer: On-Air Counseling Session with Natalie Grant
Episode 172: Anxiety Overload: On-Air Counseling Session with JP Pokluda
Episode 171: Culture Clash: Couples Therapy with Carlos and Ashley
Episode 170:Triggers Are Everywhere: Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey (Part 3)
Episode 169: Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey Part 2: The Emotional Affairs
Episode 168: Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey: Infidelity and Intimacy
Episode 167: Couples Therapy with Eric and Ashley: Dealing with Sexual Baggage
Episode 166: Couples Therapy with Justin and Tracy
Episode 165: Body, Burnout, and Boundaries: Physical Health
Episode 164: How’s Your Spiritual Health? (It’s not what you think)
Episode 163: Thought Change = Life Change: Mental Health
Episode 162: Don’t Always Believe Your Feelings: Emotional Health
Episode 161: Just Not That Into You: 10 Signs To Look For
Episode 160: Secrets to Good Communication: The Art of Conversation
Episode 159: Am I Toxic? What If I’m the Unhealthy One in the Relationship
Episode 158: Compatibility: How to Know if You’re a Good Match
Episode 157: Oversharing in Relationships: 10 Things Not To Talk About Too Soon
Episode 156: Trust Issues: Is the Problem You, or Your Relationship?
Episode 155: Single In Your 30s: How to Hold on to Hope!
Episode 154: Helping Your Kids Establish a Healthy Identity
Episode 153: Considering Marriage: Majors and Minors (with Pastor Cal)
Episode 152: Moving Forward After Purity Culture
Episode 151: Oral Sex: When One of You Doesn’t Like it
Episode 150: How Do I Help My Wife Get Turned On?
Episode 149: Keeping Sex Fun When You’re Trying to Get Pregnant
Episode 148: Is It Wrong to Want to Try Something I’ve Seen in Porn?
Episode 147: Sex Tips & Tricks For Newlyweds (or not so Newlyweds)
Episode 146: Sexless in a Sex-Filled World
Episode 145: NFL & Mental Health w/ Rashad Johnson
Episode 144: # Mind over Matter: Mental Health and The Olympics w/ Trenten Merrill
Episode 143: #1 Most Downloaded: How Identity Impacts Relationships w/ Christine Caine
Episode 142: #2 Most Downloaded: Am I Too Picky? with Ben Stuart
Episode 141: #3 Most Downloaded: What a Godly Man Wants in a Woman w/Chad Johnson
Episode 140: #4 Most Downloaded: Should A Woman Initiate? One Man’s Perspective with Chad Johnson
Episode 139: #5 Most Downloaded: Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
Episode 138: Anxiety in High Performance, High Functioning People
Episode 137: How To Deal With Stress (In 3 Steps)
Episode 136: When Life Brings You Down: Overcoming Severe Depression with Ben Courson
Episode 135: Avoiding the Comparison Trap with Jamie Ivey
Episode 134: Insomnia: How To Get Better Sleep
Episode 133: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Jonathan Pitts
Episode 132: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Jeremy Camp
Episode 131: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session Levi Lusko
Episode 130: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Christine Caine
Episode 129: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Matt Chandler
Episode 128: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Kayla Stoecklein
Episode 127: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Natalie Grant
Episode 126: Are You Really OK? My On-Air Counseling Session with JP Pokluda
Episode 125: LISTEN NOW!! Are You Really OK? AUDIOBOOK INTRODUCTION!
Episode 124: Getting Married Young with Dave and Ashley Willis
Episode 123: Getting Married Older with Sabrina and Levi
Episode 122: How Do I Get Over Someone I Was NEVER With?
Episode 121: How Do You Handle Feedback After a BreakUp?
Episode 120: Opposite Sex Friendships - Do I Have Too Many?
Episode 119: Loving After Hurt with Adam Weber
Episode 118: Sharing About Your Past- How Much Is Too Much?
Episode 117: Sexting, Sex Appeal, and The Hookup Culture with Girl Defined
Episode 116: Three Ways To Avoid Valentine's Dissapointment (for every relationship status)
Episode 115: Long Distance Relationships - How Much is Too Much?
Episode 114: The Toxic Relationship with Chrystal Hurst Evans
Episode 113: Respectful Ways To Turn Someone Down
Episode 112: Long Distance Red Flags
Episode 111: Spiritual Intimacy in Dating- How Much is Too Much?
Episode 110: Getting Healthy While Standing Alone with Michelle Williams from Destiny's Child
Episode 109: Living Abundantly While Single! With Bethany Anne
Episode 108: He Broke Up With Me By TEXT!
Episode 107: How Porn Impacts Relationships with Jonathan Pokluda
Episode 106: Dealing with Conflict in Relationships (Especially During Covid!!)
Episode 105: Relationship Q&A With Chad Johnson: Part 2
Episode 104: Relationship Q&A With Chad Johnson: Part 1
Episode 103: I'm Waiting For Sex and Proud of It!!
Episode 102; Am I Too Picky? With Ben Stuart
Episode 101: When Should You Say "I love you"?
Episode 100: I'm Struggling with My Partner's Sexual History
Episode 099: Healing After Divorce with Eryn Eddy
Episode 098: Am I Toxic? What If I'm the Unhealthy One in the Relationship?
Episode 097: The Balance of Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
Episode 096: Dealing with Controversial Topics in Dating
Episode 095: Engaged During Covid with Emma Mae Jenkins
Episode 094: How Do You Know You've Healed From the Past?
Episode 093: Should a Woman Initiate? One Man's Perspective with Chad Johnson
Episode 092: What a Godly Man Wants In a Woman with Chad Johnson
Episode 091: Jealousy in a Relationship: Is It Ever Good?
Episode 090: Your Identity Impacts Your Relationships with Christine Caine
SEASON 5 PREMIERE: Physical Boundaries. We're Saving Sex For Marriage. Episode 089.
#1 Most Downloaded: How Important is Physical Attraction? A Candid conversation with Christian men.
#2 Most Downloaded: Casual Dating - What's TOO Casual?
#3 Most Downloaded: Sex Drive and Singleness - Controlling Lust Before It Controls You
#4 Most Downloaded: Healthy Dating with Ben Stuart
#5 Most Downloaded: How Far Is Too Far? Physical Touch Before Marriage
Episode 083: The Reality Check of Marriage. A Conversation with Jeremy and Addie Camp.
Episode 082: Dealing with Anxiety. A Conversation with Ashley Willis.
Episode 081: The First Years of Marriage. A Conversation with Ryan and Selena Frederick.
Episode 080: Fighting to Flourish in Hard Times. A Conversation with Jennie Lusko.
Episode 079: Hope for Heartbreak. A Conversation with Ben Courson.
Episode 078: Struggling with Singleness. A Conversation with Mandisa.
Episode 077: Play Hard To Get (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 076: Marriage Should Make You Happy (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 075: You'll Just Know When You Meet The Right Person (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 074: Women Shouldn't Initiate (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 073: Happy Wife Makes A Happy Love (and other bad relationship advice)
Quarantine Episode 6: A Singles Guide To Thriving in Quarantine
Episode 071: Just Wait on God (and other bad relationship advice)
Episode 070: Married Couples Need a Weekly Date Night Out (and other bad relationship advice)
Quarantine Episode 5: Managing Conflict in Close Quarters
Quarantine Episode 4: Social Distancing from Toxic People - With Gary Thomas
Quarantine Episode 3: Handwashing and Heartwashing
Quarantine Episode 2: Emotional and Mental Self Care Tips (Part 2)
Quarantine Episode 1: Emotional and Mental Health Self Care Tips
Episode 064: Taking a Break in a Relationship - How To Do It Well
Episode 063: The on again off again relationship
Episode 062: 8 Ways to Pray For Your Love Life (even before you have a relationship)
Episode 061: 10 Places to Meet Christian Singles
Episode 060: 12 Signs Your Marriage Needs Help
Episode 059: Valentine's DAY Bonus Episode!!
Episode 058: 3 Ways to Avoid Valentine's Day Disappointment (no matter what your relationship status)
Episode 057: Should I Marry Him? 5 Signs You Shouldn't
Episode 056: Winter - The Frost of Apathy (and how to deal with it)
Episode 055: Colors of Fall. Questions to Ask Your Partner (Not Assume)
Episode 054: Summer Is When Things Get Hot! On Intimacy in Relationships
Episode 053: Spring Is The Season of Growth - Love In Every Season
Episode 052: How To Make 2020 The Year of Better Relationships
Episode 051: Dating Someone Who Is Divorced
Episode 050: CoLeadership In Marriage with Tim + Anne
Episode 049: 15 Get To Know You Questions
Episode 048: 3 Ways To Show Her You're Interested
Episode 047: 3 Ways To Show Him You're Interested
Episode 046: Is It Possible To Fall In Love With the Wrong Person?
Episode 045: Walking Away From Toxic Relationships- With Gary Thomas
Episode 044: Compatibility in a Relationship - How to Know You're a Good Match!
Episode 043: Should Obesity Be a Deal Breaker In Dating?
Episode 042: Healthy Dating Looks Like This - With Ben Stuart.
Episode 041: Using Your Time To Strengthen Your Love. A Conversation With My Husband. (Part 3)
Episode 040: Boundaries With The Opposite Sex. A Conversation With My Husband. (Part 2)
SEASON 3 - Episode 039: Our Secret Sauce to Marriage. A Conversation With My Husband. (Part 1)
Episode 038: Casual Dating. Why It Can't STAY Casual.
Episode 037: Spiritual Warfare & Your Relationships
Episode 036: How To Guard Your Heart Without Being Too Guarded
Episode 035: Just Say No. How Doing Less is More w/Jeff Bethke
Episode 034: Faith & Romance. Attracted To a Non Christian.
Episode 033: 5 Differences That Cause Stress in Marriage.
Episode 032: Biblical Dating. Camels, Arranged Marriage, and Starbucks.
Episode 031: Ready To Wed. When You're Ready to Marry But Your Parents Say No.
Episode 030: Me, You, and Jesus. What It Means To Have a Christ Centered Relationship.
Episode 029: Low Sex Drive In Marriage. Dealing with the Ups and Downs of Sex Drive.
Episode 028: Single In My 30s. How To Hold On To Hope.
Episode 027: Practical Oneness in Marriage. The Reality of Two Becoming One.
Episode 026: 10 Girls You Shouldn't Date. How To Avoid Heart Break
Episode 025: 10 Guys You Shouldn't Date. How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?
Episode 024: Birth Order + Relationships: How Your Birth Order Impacts Your Love Life
Episode 023: Break Up Advice. 10 Ways To Heal After A Break Up
Episode 022: Communication After Marriage. How To Stop The Drift w/Dr. Kimberling.
Episode 021: Do I Trust Too Quickly? 5 Ways To Build Trust
Episode 020: Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns
Episode 019: The Only Three Dating Rules You Need - Know Your Red, Green, and Yellows
Episode 018: Can a Woman Make The First Move? On Women Initiating
Episode 017: Top 10 Relationship Killers. Small Things That Cause Big Problems.
Episode 016: Oversharing in Relationships. 10 Things NOT To Share Too Soon
Episode 015: Is There Such a Thing As The One? My husband and I disagree.
Episode 014: How Far Is Too Far? Physical Touch Before Marriage
Episode 013: You Don't Have To Like Being Single - 10 Ways To Survive Singleness
Episode 012: The Ultimate Date: Date Ideas From First Dates to Married Dates
Episode 011: Sex Drive & The Single Life - Controlling Your Drive Before It Controls You
Episode 010: No More Pretending - Depression, Suicide, & The Church w/Jarrid Wilson
Episode 009: How Important is Physical Attraction? A Candid Conversation With Two Guys (Gary Thomas Interview)
Episode 008: When Life Doesn't Go As Planned - Dealing with Grief, Loss, and Remarriage
Episode 007: The Art of Conversation - Secrets to Good Communication
Episode 006: Junk Food Relationships: The Guy Next Door
Episode 005: Online Dating: How To Up Your Odds
Episode 004: One-Sided Relationships - Learning When to Let Go
Episode 003: Drama, Drama, Drama -90% of Divorced Couples Did THIS Wrong
Episode 002: Just Not That Into You - 10 Signs He/She Isn't Interested
Episode 001: Trust Issues - Is the Problem in the Relationship, or in You?
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