relationship blind spots

Relationship Blind Spots: How To See What You’re Not Seeing

In Podcast by Debra Fileta

Q: We’re thinking about getting married and want to make sure our relationship is as healthy as it can be. How do we identify relationship blind spots that we might have?

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Today’s question comes from Lindsey, who’s wondering how to recognize relationship blind spots as they’re looking toward getting married. 

Today, I tag-team this question with Dr. Christina Salama (BOOK A SESSION WITH Dr. Christina), one of the amazing counselors on my team! Dr. Christina is passionate about marriage, and helping people assess the blind spots and problem spots that will inevitably come up in relationships. Together we talk about some important topics that often get missed, and some practical ways you can identify and work through relationship blind spots.

This episode is so important for those who are dating and married. So tune in on the Love & Relationships Podcast and follow the show by clicking on the button below!



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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written five books including Choosing Marriage, True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog,, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today!

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