How do you know when someone is just not into you? Find out the 10 signs you need to be looking for to know if he or she is into you.

Just Not That Into You: 10 Signs To Look For

In Podcast by Debra Fileta

“You should never have to convince someone that you’re worth loving.” (Tweet it!)

That’s exactly what I told the caller on today’s episode of the show. 

After getting burned by a lady he’s been getting to know, he finds himself wondering how on earth is a person supposed to read the opposite sex and find out whether or not someone is interested? Are there signs to be on the lookout for?

Why, yes…yes there are. 10 different signs to be exact. But here’s the key: you have to be willing to recognize them, and then accept them. 

And I’m going to talk through all this and more in today’s interesting show!!

If you’ve ever been in a relationship where you wondered whether or not they felt the same way about you as you felt about them (whether dating or even in marriage) — then this episode is for you.

Give this short episode (25 minutes) a quick listen, and then leave your 5-star rating and review on iTunes! It helps to get the word out and challenge others to move toward God’s best for relationships…because you should never have to convince someone that you’re worth investing in (tweet it). 

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season, and Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog,, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!

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Resources Mentioned:

10 Signs He/She Is Not That Into You

Does He Like Me? 7 Clues He’s Interested

Does She Like Me? 7 Clues She’s Interested

Learn how to attract and keep a healthy dating relationships in True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life

Find out choices you can make today, to build a better marriage for tomorrow in Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me