Today we’re talking questions to ask your partner, because we often assume instead of ask…and end up with some major conflict.
When it comes to relationships, things aren’t always as they appear. Every relationship goes through a season where they navigate through the realization that the person they’re with has flaws, failures, and sometimes — major issues.
True colors begin to shine through, and sometimes those colors are beautiful, but sometimes, they’re not so beautiful.
This, my friends, is the season of fall.
Fall is when your true colors start to shine through: your sins, struggles, failures and flaws. You realize you’re two different people with different expectations, needs, personalities, and most significantly — different backgrounds, family of origins, and ways of looking at the world.
Questions To Ask Your Partner – Not Assume
All the things you ASSUMED about this person, are revealed and replaced by the TRUTH of who this person actually is.
In order to really understand a person in their entirety, we’ve got to learn to ask more than we assume. So today we’re talking about specific areas you need to ASK and not ASSUME when it comes to learning about the person you’re with.
Today on the podcast we’re talking about this aspect of the season of fall and addressing questions to ask your partner, as we continue our discussion on the four seasons of every healthy relationship, from my brand new book, Love In Every Season!
Love + Relationships Podcast Notes:
For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast & TLD articles check out:
- How To Find a Good Match: Compatibility In a Relationship
- Healthy Dating Looks Like This: A Conversation With Ben Stuart
- Boundaries with the Opposite Sex: A Conversation with My Husband
- My Husband Does Not Have The Final Say In Our Marriage (article)
MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA
Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.
And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twi