25 Valentines Day Ideas You Can Do With or Without a Valentine!

In Advice and Encouragement, Relationships, Single by Debra Fileta

These 25 creative valentines day ideas will help you remember that love is all around.

You don’t need a date to celebrate Valentine’s Day. In fact, the very history of Valentine’s Day is rooted in remembrance of St. Valentine- a man who was known for his love for God, his love for people, and his desire for justice.

For those of you who are single, remember that Valentine’s Day is not just about romantic love – it’s about love between friends, family, and most importantly, the deep love of God. It’s an opportunity to put all else aside to love and be loved by the people that God has placed in your life.

So take a break from the roses and chocolates–and check out these creative valentines day ideas as a way to take advantage of this special day–no matter what your relationship status:

Fill a jar with short notes of appreciation.

Bake cookies for a friend or family member.

Bring cards to the residents of a senior home.

Spend the afternoon at a boys and girls club investing in at-risk kids.

Cook a meal for a loved one.

Buy a good book for someone you love. 😉

Make chocolate covered strawberries with some friends. (Okay, maybe just a little chocolate)

Have a movie marathon of your favorites!

Pay for someone behind you at the grocery store or another random act of kindness.

Host a bible study or small group and chat about God’s love.

Create a playlist of your favorite songs and give to a friend.

Write cards to the top 10 people you appreciate.

Spend an evening having meaningful conversation.

Write a poem for a loved one.

Listen to your favorite worship songs and sing your heart out.

Spend some time journaling love letters to God.

Host a dinner party and invite some friends.

Spend quality time with your grandma and grandpa, mom and dad, or sisters and brothers.

Write some emails sharing your appreciation with others.

Make a list of “20 things I love/appreciate about you” to give to a family member or friend.

Have a game night with some friends.

Pray for someone you run into as you go about your day. Or another idea, spend some time praying for your love life or FUTURE love life.

Take someone you’ve been wanting to spend quality time with on a special “day out”.

Write a card of encouragement to someone unexpected (mailman, a neighbor, cashier at the grocery store).

Don’t just say “I love you”–speak out loud what you love about the people you love.

No matter what your relationship status…take some time to reflect–and show your love to God and the people He’s placed in your life this Valentine’s Day!

Comment below: What are some other ways you can show love to others this Valentine’s Day? Write your valentines day ideas in the comments below!

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