Love + Relationships Podcast with Debra Fileta

Enneagram and Relationships

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Q: What are the right ways, and wrong ways to use the Enneagram? And how can we use it to strengthen our relationships? – Rachel from PA

Welcome back to the Love & Relationship Podcast, a hotline style show where we tackle all your questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health — with short, bite-sized, practical answers.

Today on the podcast we’re talking about the Enneagram! You may have heard about the Enneagram before, or this could be your first glimpse — but either way, this conversation is really enlightening!

My co-host today tag-teaming this question is Pastor Matt Brown! Pastor Matt is a huge enneagram fan, and believes that this tool impacted his life and his church in meaningful ways, and helped him put into words a deeper understanding of his own personality and motivations!

Today we talk through the pros and cons of the Enneagram, and how we can use it to better our relationships!

So tune in to today’s episode and let me know on Instagram what you thought of the conversation!


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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written five books including Choosing Marriage, True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog,, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today!

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