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Stop Caring What People Think About You

In Advice and Encouragement, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 18, 2023

I met a young woman who was in search of significance. Everyday she would live her life longing for acceptance …

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What Men Really Want in a Woman

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 22, 2022

All kinds of women out there are wondering what men really want in a woman… Ever since my last article …

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Why You Always Date Jerks

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 25, 2022

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the sweetest people are drawn to the “bad guys”? I’ll never forget meeting Kelly*, …

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Christian Dating Advice: 3 Things That Will Change EVERYTHING

In Dating by Debra FiletaFebruary 3, 2021

Q: What Christian dating advice would you give to those of us who are “out there” in the world of …

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We All Come with a Price Tag

In Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 1, 2020

One evening, I was on a walk with a prostitute. We’d become good friends over the course of my ministry …

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To All the Single Ladies: Understanding The Mating Game

In For the Ladies, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 10, 2018

Dating Tips For Women: What I Learned From Watching The Birds My husband and I were watching a television series …

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Women Need to Stop Asking What Men Want

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 17, 2016

I don’t often do this, because my readership is actually made up of 50% male, and 50% female…but today, I’m …

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Dealing with Sexual Past in Marriage

In Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaNovember 12, 2015

After publishing an article addressing the topic of dealing with your partner’s sexual history, my inbox was swarmed with emails from …

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Does the Church Embrace Single Women?

In For the Ladies, Single by Debra FiletaOctober 19, 2015

Does the Church embrace singleness?  I threw that question out there on my True Love Dates Facebook page. It was …

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The Art of Being Alone

In Advice and Encouragement, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaAugust 27, 2015

There was a time in my life when I felt utterly alone. It was my first year of graduate school, …

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Is it Okay for a Woman to Initiate a Relationship?

In Dating, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaSeptember 11, 2014

I’ve spent many years sorting through the do’s and don’ts that Christian culture has taught me- trying to navigate through …

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I Heart Me: Do You Love Yourself?

In Advice and Encouragement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Single by Debra FiletaAugust 4, 2014

What if the  one thing that is keeping us from loving others, is our inability to love ourselves? We can …

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Who Has It Easier? Single vs. Married

In Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJune 22, 2014

In my practice, I’ve observed a strange irony that exists. Over the past decade, I have counseled just as many …

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The Myth of Happily Ever After

In Advice and Encouragement, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJune 1, 2014

Why is it that fairy tales always end with “Happily Every After”? With every princess movie I watch or storybook …

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When Your Greatest Enemy is Yourself

In Advice and Encouragement, Single by Debra FiletaMay 29, 2013

The greatest tragedy that could take place in your life, would be for you to believe that you are worth …

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