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Unmarried? What to do With Sexual Desires

In Advice and Encouragement, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaOctober 5, 2022

Q: Can you tell me how to control sexual desires when single? My hormones seem like they’re raging, and I’m …

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13 Signs That He’s Just Not That Into You

In Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 20, 2022

Are there any signs he’s just not that into you? As a relationship expert, I can guarantee you that there are. …

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8 Ways to Pray For Your Love Life (Or Lack Thereof!)

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 8, 2021

A prayer for love has to be something you do no a regular basis. Love and relationships are one of …

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10 Secrets About Marriage You Need To Know

In Marriage by Debra FiletaJune 3, 2019

There are very few people that actually know what they’re getting into when it comes to marriage.  I was one of …

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Marry Someone Who Makes You Cry

In Advice and Encouragement, Engagement, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaNovember 17, 2017

My husband makes me cry a lot. But this particular time, it happened on Thanksgiving. Before you jump to conclusions, …

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Fake Faith: The Myth of “Waiting on God”

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJuly 17, 2017

And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it …

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God Did Not Tell You To Marry Your Spouse

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Marriage by Debra FiletaMarch 27, 2017

A note from Debra: I’ve been getting a lot of emails from people mad at God – mad at him …

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Submit Your Question for the TrueLoveDates.com Dating Q&A

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating by Debra FiletaFebruary 19, 2017

Every year, one of my most popular series is the Dating Q&A. If you missed it last year – you’re …

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13 Signs Your Relationship Is Moving Too Fast

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJuly 17, 2016

We live in a culture of instant gratification and immediate pleasure. We want things fast and we want things now, …

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5 Rules For The Dating Game

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating by Debra FiletaJune 16, 2016

It’s really hard to play a game if you don’t know the rules. It’s even harder if no one is …

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Jesus Can’t Be Your Boyfriend

In Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJune 6, 2016

“Jesus is your boyfriend now…” I was watching a funny YouTube video about Stuff Christian singles hear.  It’s full of …

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5 Life Skills to Master Before Marriage

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaMarch 22, 2016

There are certain basic life skills that should be mastered (or at least strongly developed) before entering marriage. In his …

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Is It Time to “Define the Relationship”?

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaAugust 18, 2015

I recently threw out a question on Facebook asking what people thought about “DTR”s.  DTRs…you know, that can-be awkward conversation …

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5 Ways to Pray for Love (Before You Find It)

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Single by Debra FiletaJune 16, 2015

I vividly remember sitting in my college dorm one afternoon, struggling with some major questions about my love life.  I …

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3 Ways You Are Destroying Your Marriage (Without Realizing)

In Advice and Encouragement, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 31, 2015

Over the past few years, I am seeing more and more marriages of couples and friends around me falling apart. …