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A Woman’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaFebruary 1, 2023

After a “Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines” hit the blog last week, I got a lot of great response from …

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A Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 25, 2023

It’s easy to feel that men and women speak different languages.  Books titles like Men are from Mars, Women are …

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Why “Friends with Benefits” Has ZERO Benefits

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaAugust 24, 2022

We live in a culture with a high tolerance for unknowns.  From our fear of calling things right and wrong, …

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That “On Again, Off Again” Relationship: The Truth About Taking A Break In A Relationship

In Dating by Debra FiletaJune 25, 2018

Have you thought about taking a break in a relationship? I spoke with a guy who did just that. “We’re taking …

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Is it Okay for a Christian to Date Someone Who Is Not?

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaMarch 5, 2018

Q: I know you’ve talked about the importance of marrying “someone who loves God more than they love you”, but …

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4 Emotional Do’s and Dont’s in Dating

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 7, 2018

Emotional boundaries in dating is a topic that’s not discussed nearly enough. The following is an adapted/shortened excerpt about emotional …

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How Many Dates Are Christian Singles Going On?

In Dating by Debra FiletaAugust 7, 2017

I’ve been out of “the dating scene” for quite some time…. But “dating and relationships” is a topic that’s pertinent …

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Fake Faith: The Myth of “Waiting on God”

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJuly 17, 2017

And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it …

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How to Snag a Date: 4 Easy Steps

In Dating by Debra FiletaJuly 6, 2017

There’s a lot of complexities out there in life…yet the thing I get the most inquiries about, is this crazy little …

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5 Game Changers for Your Love Life in 2017

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 1, 2017

“Those who don’t know history- are destined to repeat it”. — Edmund Burke Let that quote sink in for a …

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5 Things Healthy Couples Do (During Dating)

In Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJuly 24, 2016

There was a time in my life where I wondered if I was crazy. I couldn’t seem to stick to …

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Why Dating Can’t Stay “Casual”

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 22, 2016

Todd and Rachel had been dating for about six months.  Everything seemed to be going great.  They got along really …

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How to Know When You’ve Met “The One”

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaApril 20, 2016

The moment our eyes connected, he just knew.   My husband John talks about the moment that we met as …

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3 Things You Need to Do In Search For “The One”

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaMarch 27, 2016

What if I told you I could help you find the one?   What if I explained to you that …

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3 Lessons That Will Change Your Love Life

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJanuary 19, 2016

I was curled up in a ball–crying in the corner of my dorm room floor.  The past year and a half …