The FREE True Love Dates 4-Week Small Group Curriculum!

I’m so excited to share it with you! I wrote this Curriculum as a response to many requests that were coming in from people who wanted to take the material from True Love Dates and use it in the context of a small group – and from Ministry leaders who wanted a resource to tackle the subject of relationships.  I was approached by Saddleback Church with interest in piloting and launching the 4-week study for their singles/20s-30s ministry! With such a great church to partner with, I quickly jumped on board and started writing!

A few years ago, after a True Love Dates event at Saddleback Church, I had the opportunity to meet and encourage over 40 small-group leaders who volunteered to lead the 4-week study in a small groups format in the weeks that followed. The launch of the 4-week study was a huge hit! I have received so much great feedback about the study, and I am so excited to finally get it into the hands of churches and leaders all across the country.

This study has shed light on the mystery of relationships. It has allowed me to view God, others, and myself in a whole new light. Debra Fileta’s message has rocked my relational world and I could not be more grateful to be reminded of God’s truth through her words.–Alexis A.

The True Love Dates curriculum is invaluable! A great study for introspection that I highly recommend to all singles. My life and view on dating inward, outward and upward is forever changed for the better.–Melody H.

The TLD small group gives you practical applications and ideas on what dating should really be like. It helped me focus on the inward so that I could be better outward. It’s so easy to get caught up in wanting to change the other person, when change really needs to start with me. It was great to be able to be real with the opposite sex and hear how they feel without worrying about someone having an agenda. It really helped me to put dating God’s way into perspective.–Solange M.

The True Love Dates Curriculum is a must read for young men and women who are interested in being the right person instead of finding the right person, dating intentionally, and having a healthy and godly relationship.–Tricia M.

What’s Involved? The study is jam-packed with great content, lessons, scripture, questions, and interactive activities to make for a fun, stimulating, community-building environment.  Each Study Guide includes both a Leader’s and a Participant’s Guide, and gives you step-by-step instructions to create a successful, fun, learning environment in your church or in your home.  The curriculum stands alone, independent of the book and you don’t have to have previously read True Love Dates to benefit from this study but it does go hand-in-hand with the material from the book for those who choose to do an in-depth study.

Who’s It For? The study is geared for the 18-35 age-group, but can be tailored and customized for any demographic. I wrote the study to be used independent of my book True Love Dates, although it’s perfect for anyone who wants to go deeper with the content.

  • Have a Small Group that wants to tackle the topic of relationships…then this study is for you!
  • Are you in Ministry or at a Church and want to tackle the topics of dating and relationships….then this study is for you!
  • Have you read True Love Dates and want to go deeper and connect with others…then this study is for you!

It can be used in a Church/Sunday School Setting, in a Home Small Group, at a College/University, or as a Ministry Tool, inviting people to come and learn more about healthy relationships.

How do you get it? This curriculum is absolutely FREE for anyone who signs up for the True Love Dates mailing list. All you have to do is enter your email address below and you will receive an email shortly with the download instruction. If you have enjoyed the content from this blog, and want to go deeper in learning about how to have a healthy relationship, I highly recommend you purchase a copy of True Love Dates to go along with the recommended reading throughout the study.

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  1. Planning to use this study with a co-Ed college age group. Love your book!

    1. Awesome! Be sure to let me know how it goes and if you need anything along the way 🙂 Co-ed groups are great for discussion!!

  2. I am planning to do the small group curriculum with Saddleback Church.

  3. I’m already following you on Facebook and get the emails but I am very interested in the small group curriculum.


    1. It should already be in your inbox in the email entitled “Freebies” that gets sent to you upon your email subscription! If you can’t find it in your inbox, email me and I’ll send you the file directly.

  4. I can’t seem to be able to subscribe above for the free curriculum, please help.

  5. Hi, I’m a small group leader who’d love to take my group through your 4-week curriculum. Can’t seem to submit my email address. Help please. 🙂

  6. The link isn’t working anymore–it says enter email address to get the curriculum but when I hit submit, nothing happens

  7. Hey! We would love to use your curriculum for our small group – could you email me the course:)

  8. Attempted to download the curriculum but I don’t see it anywhere once I submit my email address. I think I may be missing something. Hoping to lead a group for the dating folks in our church that seem “stuck” between the single and married communities.

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