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10 Toxic Thoughts You Probably Think

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, Guest Post, Marriage, Mental and Emotional Health, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaAugust 11, 2022

Guest Post: Debra Fileta Counselors Network, licensed counselor BRI FRANKLIN, M.A., LMHC Much like “red flags”, we can more easily …

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5 Myths Christians Should Stop Believing About Dating

In Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaAugust 3, 2022

What would you change if you could go back in time?  I’m sure we’ve all thought through that question at some …

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You Don’t Find “The One”, You Choose “The One”

In Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJuly 27, 2022

Have you ever wondered how to know you found the one? There are so many Christian singles out there who …

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What Men Really Want in a Woman

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 22, 2022

All kinds of women out there are wondering what men really want in a woman… Ever since my last article …

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Why Chivalry (As We Know It) Should Be Dead!

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 15, 2022

I was first introduced to the art of chivalry during my freshman year of college.  As a northern girl (a …

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How I Knew I’d Found “The One” (And How You’ll Know, Too)

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 2, 2022

I used to wish God would give me a snapshot of my future. That I could close my eyes, and …

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Why You Always Date Jerks

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 25, 2022

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the sweetest people are drawn to the “bad guys”? I’ll never forget meeting Kelly*, …

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What Women Really Want in a Man

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 4, 2022

What women want in a man is probably not what most men expect. In fact, I saw an ad recently …

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3 Kinds of Communicators: Which Are You?

In Dating, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 27, 2022

Do opposites attract, or attack?  Part 1 of this post addressed the very important issue of differences between two people …

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13 Signs That He’s Just Not That Into You

In Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 20, 2022

Are there any signs he’s just not that into you? As a relationship expert, I can guarantee you that there are. …

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A Guide to Singleness: For Your 40s+

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Single by Debra FiletaMarch 30, 2022

If singleness in your 30’s is marked by discouragement, for many people, singleness in their 40s+ is marked by despair. …

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10 Girls You Should NEVER Date

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys by Debra FiletaMarch 9, 2022

My last article 10 Guys You Should Never Date, blew up my website.  And while it resonated with most people, …

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10 Guys You Should NEVER Date

In Dating by Debra FiletaMarch 2, 2022

Just say no to bad dates. Or for that matter, bad relationships. Imagine how simple your love-life could be if …

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How to STOP Leading People On

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaFebruary 9, 2022

I was prepared for a specific response from readers when I posted an article called “How to NEVER Get Led-On …

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What to Do About One Sided Relationships

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 26, 2022

Have you ever found yourself in a one sided relationship? I know a lot of people who have.  One email I …