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10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date

In Dating, For the Guys, Podcast by Debra FiletaAugust 11, 2023

Heart break doesn’t have to be the norm…if you know what to avoid, that is. In this episode of the LOVE …

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10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?

In Dating, For the Ladies, Podcast by Debra FiletaAugust 8, 2023

Q: Hey Debra! I have a pattern of dating the bad boys. How do I recognize the type of guy …

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Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns

In Dating, Podcast, Single by Debra FiletaAugust 4, 2023

Does God want me to be single forever? How do I know whether or not I have the “gift” of singleness? …

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Struggling With Singleness: A Conversation with Mandisa

In Dating, Podcast by Debra FiletaAugust 1, 2023

Do you feel like you’re struggling with singleness? I know that the struggle can be heightened during this season of …

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An Age-by-Age Guide to Singleness

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaJuly 20, 2023

There is probably no other stage of life that is wished away more than the stage of singleness.  For many, …

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A Woman’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaFebruary 1, 2023

After a “Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines” hit the blog last week, I got a lot of great response from …

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A Man’s Guide to Reading In-Between the Lines

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 25, 2023

It’s easy to feel that men and women speak different languages.  Books titles like Men are from Mars, Women are …

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Top 5 Relationship Mistakes You Made Last Year

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 28, 2022

2022 was an epic year.  And I don’t mean that in a good way.  I don’t know about you, but …

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The One-Sided Relationship

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Podcast, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 26, 2022

Have you ever found yourself in one-sided relationship where you are doing ALL the work? Where you are giving, and giving, …

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How Your Past Chooses Your Partner

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Guest Post, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 22, 2022

Guest Post: Debra Fileta Counselors Network, licensed counselor BRI FRANKLIN, M.A., LMHCTo book a 50 minute online zoom session with Bri click …

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How to Guard Your Heart: 3 Practical Steps To Preventing “Emotional Sex”

In Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaDecember 7, 2022

When it comes to Christian relationships, guard your heart is probably one of the most common bits of advice. But …

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Your Relationship Has Too Much Drama If…

In Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaOctober 12, 2022

It’s an out-of-control epidemic. Turn on any episode of reality TV, listen to a few songs on the radio, or …

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What Makes a Man Marriage Material

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage by Debra FiletaSeptember 14, 2022

A few days ago, my husband wrote a post about the qualities that make a woman marriage material, and I …

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What Makes a Woman Marriage Material

In Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies by Debra FiletaSeptember 7, 2022

Have you ever wondered what guys are looking for in a wife? Or maybe you’re a man, and you’ve dated …

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Why “Friends with Benefits” Has ZERO Benefits

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaAugust 24, 2022

We live in a culture with a high tolerance for unknowns.  From our fear of calling things right and wrong, …