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How I Knew I’d Found “The One” (And How You’ll Know, Too)

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaJune 2, 2022

I used to wish God would give me a snapshot of my future. That I could close my eyes, and …

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Why You Always Date Jerks

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 25, 2022

Have you ever noticed that sometimes the sweetest people are drawn to the “bad guys”? I’ll never forget meeting Kelly*, …

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What Women Really Want in a Man

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships by Debra FiletaMay 4, 2022

What women want in a man is probably not what most men expect. In fact, I saw an ad recently …

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3 Kinds of Communicators: Which Are You?

In Dating, Marriage, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 27, 2022

Do opposites attract, or attack?  Part 1 of this post addressed the very important issue of differences between two people …

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13 Signs That He’s Just Not That Into You

In Dating, For the Ladies, Relationships by Debra FiletaApril 20, 2022

Are there any signs he’s just not that into you? As a relationship expert, I can guarantee you that there are. …

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A Guide to Singleness: For Your 40s+

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Single by Debra FiletaMarch 30, 2022

If singleness in your 30’s is marked by discouragement, for many people, singleness in their 40s+ is marked by despair. …

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An Age-by-Age Guide to Singleness

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaMarch 23, 2022

There is probably no other stage of life that is wished away more than the stage of singleness.  For many, …

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10 Girls You Should NEVER Date

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys by Debra FiletaMarch 9, 2022

My last article 10 Guys You Should Never Date, blew up my website.  And while it resonated with most people, …

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10 Guys You Should NEVER Date

In Dating by Debra FiletaMarch 2, 2022

Just say no to bad dates. Or for that matter, bad relationships. Imagine how simple your love-life could be if …

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How to STOP Leading People On

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaFebruary 9, 2022

I was prepared for a specific response from readers when I posted an article called “How to NEVER Get Led-On …

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What to Do About One Sided Relationships

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Relationships by Debra FiletaJanuary 26, 2022

Have you ever found yourself in a one sided relationship? I know a lot of people who have.  One email I …

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The Best of 2021: Podcast Episodes

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Engagement, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Marriage, Mental and Emotional Health, Podcast, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 29, 2021

CELEBRATING 1 MILLION DOWNLOADS The Love and Relationships Podcast has surpassed 1,000,000 unique downloads! Thank you to each and every …

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Last Minute Christmas Gifts for Every Relationship Status

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, For the Ladies, Guest Post, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Courtney KatoDecember 18, 2021

Christmas Gift Ideas For Your Significant Other You can be specific and intentional in getting a gift for that special …

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To All the Adams Out There

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, For the Guys, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 13, 2021

I met a young man named Adam who was carrying a large wooden cross.  Let me back up.  My family …

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8 Ways to Pray For Your Love Life (Or Lack Thereof!)

In Advice and Encouragement, Dating, Marriage, Relationships, Single by Debra FiletaDecember 8, 2021

A prayer for love has to be something you do no a regular basis. Love and relationships are one of …