tld-3d-book-sidebarChristian young adults are looking for the answers to finding true love. They are disillusioned with the church that gives them biblical truth without any practical application in the area of love and relationships. They have been bombarded by Christian books that shun dating, idolize courting, fixate on spirituality and in the end offer little to no help in the real world of dating.

True Love Dates provides a systematic approach to dating by  guiding the reader into three types of relationships that are vital to finding true love: dating inward, dating outward, and dating upward. Each section will educate the reader on how to lay a proper foundation for building a healthy relationship: starting with getting to know one’s self, then addressing important dynamics of interpersonal relationships, and lastly defining God’s role within the dynamics of a dating relationship.

Written by a Professional Counselor, it offers sound psychological advice grounded and rooted in Christian spirituality. It provides insight, direction, and counsel when it comes to entering the world of dating and learning to do it right. Drawing on the stories of hundreds of young men and women, it offers its reader a bypass to unnecessary pain allowing them to focus on the things that really matter in the world of dating and finding true love.

“We love this book!  Debra gives every single looking for love a great game plan filled with personal counsel, biblical wisdom, and practical steps.  Don’t wait to read it.  Your love life needs this book.”   —Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott  New York Times Best Selling authors of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts.

“True Love Dates blends the wisdom of a counselor with the sage experience of a woman who has made a wise marital choice and wants to help others to do so as well. Debra Fileta finds just the right balance for pursuing a life mate with proper spiritual priorities, practical wisdom and responsible personal care.” —Gary Thomas, Best Selling Author of The Sacred Marriage and Sacred Search

“Hands down, the best book on dating that I’ve ever read! If you’re single, this is a must read. Jam-packed with wise counsel, Debra becomes your personal mentor as she answers dozens of real-life dating and relationship questions. Pastors and church leaders, get this resource into the hands of your singles!”— Chris Reed, Pastor to 20s/30s and Singles at Saddleback Church, Lake Forest, CA

“True Love Dates is a wonderful dating/love/relationship resource for young women. I  absolutely love that it instills our self-worth and value as daughters of God and teaches us to look for His best in our potential mate while refining ourselves as true ladies, leaders and lovers in Christ. This is an absolute must-read and pivotal for any woman no matter your age or relationship history.”–Kristen Dalton, Miss America 2009

For more about Debra and True Love Dates, check out this interview with The Christian Post, or listen to this podcast with Focus on the Family’s Boundless Team!

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Jeremy Hamm ‏@jeremyhamm @DebFileta Love the book so far I can relate to everything! It’s like it was written for me!

Cara Stiles ‏@CaraStiles @DebFileta thru ch. 2! The Lord has been talking 2 me ab my identity. Had no clue this would be a part of ur book! I am now dating myself.