Insecurity is the seed of discontent.
It’s like a poison that seeps into our hearts and minds, filling us with confusion and doubt and fooling us into believing that we have no control. I think it’s a poison that we have all dealt with at some point, because it attacks in so many areas of our lives- relationships included.
There are two components to insecurity within a relationship: Yourself and Your Significant Other.
In this article, I will tackle both of those important components. I’ll explain how to recognize aspects in yourself that may contributing to your insecurity, and then, how to recognize characteristics in your significant other that may also be contributing to your feelings of insecurity.
Let’s start with the first thing you need to know about…
Debra Fileta is a Professional Counselor, speaker, and author of the book True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life, and 21 Days to Jump Start Your Love Life, where she writes candidly about dating, relationships, and how to find true love. You may also recognize her voice from her 150+ articles at Relevant Magazine or Crosswalk.com! She’s also the creator of this True Love Dates Blog! Connect with her on Facebook or Twitter!