7 Lies That Are Keeping You Single

In Relationships, Single by Debra Fileta3 Comments

Did you know that there are certain beliefs that might actually be keeping you from finding love?

Beliefs that you have held on to for so long that they’ve become a part of the way you think, feel, and behave.

Beliefs that are so subtle that they often go unnoticed and unchallenged.

Beliefs that could be impacting your feelings about yourself, your interactions with others, and even your hope for the future.

In psychology, we teach that a self-fulfilling prophecy is a belief about yourself that ultimately influences your feelings, thoughts or behaviors – causing that belief to come true.

Believing that you are unworthy of love, may prevent you from being able to accept love.

Believing that there are no good relationships left, may keep you from fully committing.

Believing that God is punishing you, may keep you  far away from Him, distancing yourself from His good plans.

Believing that something MUST be wrong with you, may keep you focusing on your flaws and prevent you from ever embracing your strengths.

There are so many negative beliefs that might be holding you back from love…and the greatest tragedy in all of this is that so many of those beliefs are completely untrue.

I’m SO excited to finally share with you this program I have been working on for the past 6 months. I wrote this NEW 14 day program and workbook for anyone who is feeling hopeless, discouraged, and jaded at the prospect of ever finding love. For anyone who finds themselves battling the lies day after day.

The lies that tell you you’re not good enough.

The lies that fool you into believing that there must be something wrong with you.

The lies that shame you into feeling that maybe you’re not even worthy of love.

The lies that make you feel like God doesn’t care, or that maybe He’s punishing you.

The lies that paralyze you and keep you living in fear.

It’s time to expose those lies, and call them out for what they are. But not only that, it’s time to REPLACE those lies with TRUTH.

In this 14 day course, you’ll learn 7 lies that are keeping you from finding love…but more importantly, you’ll learn the 7 truths that will help you break free those lies!

You’ll learn to identify the things you CAN’T control, and take responsibility for the things you CAN control.

You’ll learn to call out the lies and begin to walk in truth.

It’s time to change the way you believe, and in turn how you live.

Because you will ALWAYS attract the kind of relationship you believe you deserve. And starting today, you can begin believing that you deserve more and take the initial steps to breaking free from the lies that are keeping you single!

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE AND BEGIN BREAKING FREE TODAY! For the next 24-hours, use code: VDay10 at checkout to receive $10 off. 

Debra Fileta is a Professional Counselor, national speaker, and author of True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life21 Days to Jump Start Your Love Life, and 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life – where she writes candidly about dating, relationships, and how to find true love. You may also recognize her voice from her 150+ articles at Relevant Magazine or Crosswalk.com! She’s also the creator of this True Love Dates Blog!  Connect with her on Facebook or Twitter or book a session with her today!

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Ruthie
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I just got this and am so excited at the prospect of learning more! Thank you Debra for having a heart that cares for those of us who are hurting.

oluwaseun
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It’s amazing how you discovered those seven lies that trouble the minds of singles like me looking for love. I’m greatly encouraged by you just identifying them as lies. Thank you Debra!

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